Quantitative Popularity and Youth: A Popular Debate in Peer Relations Literature!

Imagine a world that promotes no popularity on any social media apps like Instagram, Facebook, etc. Let’s say that one day when we log in to our accounts, there’s no count of likes, followers, comments, and any such numerical data. 

How do you think it’ll impact your life? 

Undoubtedly, information and communication tech has transformed rapidly over the last decade, and social media has come out to be a hero! It’s the mobility age, and the development of mobile tech has highly contributed to the rise of platforms that have a hold over the youth. 

Individuals are trying their best to develop an identity and become influencers, only to leave an impact on society and grow numbers on social media apps. In simple words, it cannot be overlooked that people’s lives are now tied up with numbers as they continuously make efforts to gain quantifiable popularity. 

Have you ever emphasized how it may affect young adults?

We’ll learn more about the same later in this article,

BUT FIRST…

WHAT IS QUANTIFIED POPULARITY? 

How do you feel about posting pictures or videos on social media? Assuming that every user expects a great number of likes and comments, it is precisely what quantified popularity is- one trying to get ahead of everyone in terms of digital scoreboards.

While tech companies are enjoying the stats maintained by them as it enables them to incline more consumers, activists want to eliminate the feature. 

BUT WHY?

To make social media a better and safer place for young adults! 

Social Media and its Connection with Mental Health 

According to reports, higher utilization of social media content can lead to a state of anxiety, stress, and depression in young adults. 

Why?

There are multiple reasons behind the same, one of which is cyberbullying. It comes in numerous forms and can include posting hurtful online comments, and the list goes on. 

Additionally, social media is also linked with body image concerns, and young girls start comparing themselves to the pictures posted by influencers. Therefore, it can result in low self-esteem, especially in cases where young people develop insecurities about not having the ‘perfect’ bodies as they witness online. 

Another huge impact of social media on young adults is the ‘Fear of Missing Out’ (FoMO). Young ones stay connected to social media all the time, compromising with their sleep. Keeping a constant check on the notifications, messages, etc., becomes a habit, resulting in poor sleep quality, which further leads to exhaustion. 

Who is the Most Popular?

Notably, school-going kids are obsessed with becoming popular and are keen to constantly keep a tab on who is popular and who is not. 

Let’s face the fact that somewhere deep down, every kid wanted to hang out with the cool and popular one. So, while some were extremely introverts, they felt massive peer pressure of communicating and forming a bond with other people. 

According to experts, cutting down quantified popularity could help a lot of kids as the first thing in the morning and the last thing at night won’t be reading the comments and checking the number of likes. 

Fear of Not Getting Admired! 

It can be distressing if the person you like doesn’t like, comment, or pay attention to your social media posts. Likewise, it can be hurtful to see a close group of friends hanging out without asking you. Therefore, eliminating quantitative popularity won’t help much in these situations! 

It all depends on each individual and the manner they get attached to the mechanisms like these. The more importance a person gives to aspects like quantitative popularity, the more distress would come along. Therefore, it is only when we take it as a casual metric, maybe it could give rise to a healthy conversation on the table. 

Social media platforms like Facebook are taking incredible initiatives to help people develop healthy relationships with the internet. It is planning to introduce measures like ‘nudge young users away from harmful content’ to divert them to other activities. 

So, what is your take on quantitative popularity? Do you think that eliminating the same won’t harm the platforms? 

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